HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING IN CHILDREN

HABITS THAT SHOW IMPROPER UPBRINGING IN CHILDREN

Please, carefully look into the list below to see where you may want to make amends on yourself or the young ones you are caring for.
Children, if not properly groomed may never get to the top in life, even if the parents are at the top of their career.
Manners take you to where your education can't irrespective of your status, money or the "who you know" factor. This is not meant to hurt anyone or pinpoint on someone for their upbringing. Its a general message targeted to all the parents of today.
1) Going to your child's school dressed indecently? Think again.
2) Speaking rashly to your child's teacher.
3) Cursing, using foul words or swearing in front of your children.
4) Using makeup on children.
5) Dressing with tight clothes and indecently for children (they loose the sense of their princesshood and may not listen to u in future)
7) Your child hold the cup or glassware by the brim and you don't correct.
8) Your children don't greet and you just feel they will come around one day because they have a mood swing. ( You will be blamed for it)
9) Your children eat with their mouth opened and you feel they will grow up some day.
10) Your children bring home something you did not buy for them and you say nothing. ( that is the beginning of stealing)
11) They talk back at you and you conclude it's okay since you are a 21st century mummy. ( You will hate yourself if they do that outside and they are disciplined )
12) They interrupt when you are speaking with another adult and you think they are bold and clever. (Its really bad manners)
13) They exercise authority over their nanny and domestic staff and you let them be. ( that is bad parenting)
14) They say things like "my driver is on his way..."
I am not an advocate that children should call your domestic staff aunty or brother, calling them by name when they are not young people is not poise either. The use of Miss, Mr or Mrs will look good on them.
15) Your children don't say- 'Thank you' when they have been helped or served something and you are cool with that. (Bad parenting)
16) When your children cannot stand children who are less privileged.
18) When they pick their nose with their hands.
19) When they don't wash their hands after visiting the washroom.
20) When your children take something from the fridge without taking permission. (Bad parenting)
21) When your children don't knock on closed doors.
22) When your children don't collect from your hands the stuff you brought in as you walk in through the door.
23) When your children request for a bribe to carry out their home chores or extra task. (That is disgraceful )
24) When your children act like their grand parents irritate them.
25) When your children have not learnt to get up from the chair for the elderly or visitors to sit.
26) When your child tells a lot of lies. (You will both cry in the future)
27) When your child asks "who is that?" at a knock on your door instead of "please, who is there."
28) When your child is always seated by your visitors when being served drinks etc.
29) When your children still point their fingers at other people.
30) When your children play and jump around when prayers are going on.(age 4 above).                                   Dont be a 21st Century  parent who cannot correct a child. Train your child in the way of The Almighty n the Prophet Muhammad(saws) so that when he grows up he will not depart frm it.

  IT IS BETTER TO LET YOUR CHILDREN  CRY AT AN EARLY AGE  WHEN YOU CORRECT THEM, IF NOT YOU WILL BOTH CRY AT NIGHT WHEN THEY BRING DISGRACE TO THE FAMILY WITH BAD AND TERRIBLE BEHAVIOURS
Pls circulate to all parents and grandparents that are on your contact list to assure us all a better future.
May Allah bless you!!!                      

LIFE AFTER 45 An interesting article.

 LIFE AFTER 45

An interesting article.

_Life can begin at 45
It is all in your hands!
Many people feel unhappy, health-wise and security-wise, after 60 years of age, owing to the diminishing importance given to them and their opinions. But, it need not be so, if only we understand the basic principles of life and follow them scrupulously. Here are ten mantras to age gracefully and make life after retirement pleasant.

1. Never say I am aged' :
There are three ages, chronological, biological, and psychological. The first is calculated based on our date of birth; the second is determined by the health conditions; the third is how old we feel we are. While we don't have control over the first, we can take care of our health with good diet, exercise and a cheerful attitude. A positive attitude and optimistic thinking can reverse the third age.

2. Health is Wealth:
If you really love your kith and kin, taking care of your health should be your priority. Thus, you will not be a burden to them. Have an annual health check-up and take the prescribed medicines regularly. Do take health insurance coverage.

3. Money is important:
Money is essential for meeting the basic necessities of life, keeping good health and earning family respect and security. Don't spend beyond your means even for your children. You have lived for them all through and it is time you enjoyed a harmonious life with your spouse. If your children are grateful and they take care of you, you are blessed. But, never take it for granted.

4. Relaxation and Recreation:
The most relaxing and recreating forces are a healthy religious attitude, good sleep, music and laughter. Have faith in God, learn to sleep well, love good music and see the funny side of life.

5. Time is Precious:
It is almost like holding a horses' reins. When they are in your hands, you can control them. Imagine that everyday you are born again. Yesterday is a cancelled cheque. Tomorrow is a promissory note. Today is ready cash - use it profitably. Live this moment; live it fully, now, in the present time.

6. Change is the only Permanent Thing:
We should accept change - it is inevitable. The only way to make sense out of change is to join in the dance. Change has brought about many pleasant things. We should be happy that our children are blessed.

7. Enlightened Selfishness:
All of us are basically selfish. Whatever we do, we expect something in return. We should definitely be grateful to those who stood by us. But, our focus should be on the internal satisfaction and the happiness we derive by doing good for others, without expecting anything in return. Perform a random act of kindness daily.

8. Forget and Forgive:
Don't be bothered too much about others' mistakes. We are not spiritual enough to show our other cheek when we are slapped in one. But for the sake of our own health and happiness, let us forgive and forget them. Otherwise, we will be only increasing our blood pressure.

9. Everything has a Purpose:
Take life as it comes. Accept yourself as you are and also accept others for what they are. Everybody is unique and is right in his own way.

10. Overcome the Fear of Death:
We all know that one day we have to leave this world. Still we are afraid of death. We think that our spouse and children will be unable to withstand our loss. But the truth is no one is going to die for you; they may be depressed for some time. Time heals everything and they will go on.

Pass to all 40 plus you may know 🙏                      

Look Up Your Birthday And See What You Are?

Look Up Your Birthday And See What You Are?

January 01 - 09 ~ Dog
January 10 - 24 ~ Mouse
January 25 - 31 ~ Lion
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February 01 - 05 ~ Cat
February 06 - 14 ~ Dove
February 15 - 21 ~ Turtle
February 22 - 28 ~ Panther
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March 01 - 12 ~ Monkey
March 13 - 15 ~ Lion
March 16 - 23 ~ Mouse
March 24 - 31 ~ Cat
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April 01 - 03 ~ Dog
April 04 - 14 ~ cat
April 15 - 26 ~ Panther
April 27 - 30 ~ Turtle
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May 01 - 13 ~ Cat
May 14 - 21 ~ Dove
May 22 - 31 ~ Lion
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June 01 - 03 ~ Mouse
June 04 - 14 ~ Turtle
June 15 - 20 ~ Dog
June 21 - 24 ~ Monkey
June 25 - 30 ~ Cat
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July 01 - 09 ~ Mouse
July 10 - 15 ~ Dog
July 16 - 26 ~ Cat
July 27 - 31 ~ Dove
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August 01 - 15 ~ Lion
August 16 - 25 ~ Mouse
August 26 - 31 ~ Turtle
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September 01 - 14 ~ Dove
September 15 - 27 ~ Cat
September 28 - 30 ~ Dog
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October 01 - 15 ~ Monkey
October 16 - 27 ~ Turtle
October 28 - 31 ~ Panther
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November 01 - 16 ~ Lion
November 17 - 30 ~ Cat
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December 01 - 16 ~ Dog
December 17 - 25 ~ Monkey
December 26 - 31 ~ Dove.
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If you are a DOG :


A very loyal and sweet person.
Your loyalty can never be doubted. You are quite honest and sincere when it comes to your attitude towards working. You are a very simple person, indeed.
Absolutely hassle free, humble and down-to-earth. That explains the reason why your friends cling on to you.
You have a good taste for clothes.
If your wardrobe is not updated with what is trendy, you sure are depressed. Popular and easy-going.
You have a little group of dignified friends, all of them being quality-personified...! Repost This If It's True For You.!! 4 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a MOUSE:
Always up to some sort of a mischief. The mischievous gleam in your eyes is what makes you so cute and attractive to everyone.
You are an extremely fun-to-be-with kind of person.
No wonder people seek for your company and look forward to include you for all get-together's. However, you are sensitive which is a drawback. People need to select their words while talking to you.
If someone tries to fiddle around and play with words while dealing with you, it is enough to invite your wrath. God bless the person then..! Repost This If It's True For You.!! 3 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a LION : Quite contradictory to your name, you are a peace loving person.
You best try to avoid a situation wherein you are required to fight. An outdoor person, you dislike sitting at one place for a long duration. Popular and easy-going. you're extremly hot and passionate lover. you're loyal and honest and expect reciprocation from your lover.
You are a born leader, and have it in you how to tactfully derive work from people. People love the way you always treat them.
You love being loved, and when you receive your share of limelight from someone, you are all theirs.Repost This If It's True For You.!! 5 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a CAT : An extremely lovable, passionate, adorable person, sometimes shy, with a passion for quick wit. You are extremely romantic. Your partner will be lucky enough to get you. As you will be very loyal with him throughout your life.
At times, you prefer quietness. You love exploring various things and going into depth of each thing. you love being honest and loyal and expect reciprocation from your lover. you're full of energy in whole life.
Under normal circumstances you're cool but when given a reason to, you are like a volcano waiting to erupt. You're a fashion bird.
People look forward to you as an icon associated with fashion. Basically, you mingle along freely but don't like talking much to strangers.
People feel very easy in your company.
You observe care in choosing your friends.
Repost This If It's True For You.!! 2 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a TURTLE :
You are near to perfect and nice at heart.
The examples of your kindness are always circulated in groups of people.
You too love peace.
You wouldn't like to retaliate even to a person who is in the wrong.
You are loved due to this.
You do not wish to talk behind one's back.
People love the way you always treat them.
You can give, give and give love, and the best part is that you do not expect it back in return.
You are generous enough.
Seeing things in a practical light is what remains the best trait of you guys.
Repost This If It's True For You.!! 10 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a DOVE : You symbolize a very happy-go-lucky approach in life.
Whatever the surroundings may be, grim or cheerful, you remain unaffected. In fact, you spread cheer wherever you go.
You are the leader of your group of friends and good at consoling people in their times of need.
You dislike hypocrisy and tend to shirk away from hypocrites.
They can never be in your good books, no matter what. You are very methodical and organized in your work.
No amount of mess, hence, can ever encompass you.
Beware, it is easy for you to fall in love....!!
Repost This If It's True For You.!! 8 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a PANTHER :
You are mysterious.
You are someone who can handle pressure with ease, and can handle any atmosphere without going berserk.
You can be mean at times, and love to gossip with your selected group. Very prim and proper.
You like all situations and things to be in the way you desire, which, sometimes is not possible.
As a result, you may lose out in some relationships.
But otherwise, you love to help people out from difficult and tight spots when they really need you.
Repost This If It's True For You.!! 12 years of bad luck if you do not share this post.
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If you are a MONKEY :
Very impatient and hyper.
You want things to be done as quick as possible.
At heart, you are quite simple and love if you are the center of attraction.
That way, you people are unique. You would like to keep yourself safe from all the angles. Shall your name be dragged or featured in any sort of a controversy, you then go all panicky.
Therefore, you take your precautions from the very beginning.
When you foresee anything wrong, your sixth sense is what saves you from falling in traps.
Quite a money minded bunch you people are...!! Repot If It's True For You.!!

Beautiful Message

Beautiful   Message !

 If    You    Are    Right    Then     There    is     No    Need    to    Get    Angry ...


And    If    You    Are    Wrong    Then    You     Don't     Have    Any    Right    to    Get    Angry.


Patience    With    Family    is   Love .....


Patience    With    Others    is   Respect.


Patience     With     Self     is   Confidence   And   Patience   With   GOD   is   Faith.


Never    Think    Hard    About    The    PAST ,    It    Brings    Tears...


Don't    Think    More    About   The   FUTURE ,   It   Brings   Fear...


Live   This   Moment   With   A   Smile ,  It    Brings   Cheer.


Every     Test     in    Our    Life   Makes   Us   Bitter   Or   Better .....


Every   Problem   Comes   To   Make   Us   Or   Break   Us  !


The      Choice     is       Ours   Whether   We   Become   Victims   Or   Victorious.


Beautiful   Things    Are    Not   Always   Good   But   Good  Things   Are   Always   Beautiful ......


Do   You   Know    Why    God  Created   Gaps  between  Fingers ?  So     That     Someone ,    Who    is     Special    To    You ,   Comes    And   Fills   Those    Gaps ,   By   Holding   Your   Hand   Forever.


 " Happiness "   Keeps   You ....  Sweet   But   Being   Sweet   Brings   Happiness.

Do    Share    It  ,    With    All    The    Good    People   In   Your   Life.